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How to Turn 50
OMG it's today. Here's what I'm doing, thinking and feeling.
Jan 24, 20253 min read


On Soloing
I’ve been thinking about how to write this for a while. Solitary souls are often described in the negative: The social situations and...
Nov 2, 20243 min read
How to Yosemite
Yosemite's reputation for crowds and traffic kept me away for the first six years I lived in the Bay Area. I saw my chance during the COVID pandemic, when a small number of entrance passes were rationed through a lottery. That 2020 trip was a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to experience the park with very few humans in it. I've returned every year, honing my strategy for a pretty good, low-hassle Yosemite visit at any time. Be an early bird If you're not willing to rise long
Nov 4, 20237 min read
When You Just Need a Coffee
I cried in my Beijing hotel room on one of the early days of the trip. An accumulation of stressors contributed to the breakdown:...
Jul 9, 20233 min read
My Twisted Guts
PART 1: EMERGENCY The only real downside of living alone , I’ve always figured, is the risk of being stricken by a medical emergency in...
Jul 6, 20237 min read
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